Ethical Personal Power Effectiveness™

Practical Skills to Reset Your Relationship With Power for the Better...

Stop Being Harmed by Our "Perpetual Stress Society"
Uplevel Your Positive Impact in Your Personal, Work & Community Life


It's Hard to Thrive in Today's Perpetual Stress Society

In today's divisive polarized rapidly changing world, it's more important than ever to uplevel your skills for managing change, so you can keep your wellbeing vibrant while supercharging your success with your goals. How? By discovering how to make your personal power stronger than the stress and anger that surrounds you. In good ways. In your personal life, business life, and community life.


3 Big Blocks to Personal Power in a Perpetual Stress Society

  • Block #1 -- Learned Helplessness: Mostly people get stressed and angry when they feel like they have little to no impact (referred to in psychology as "learned helplessness." Most people feel like that have little or no impact in one or more of these areas...
    • Quality of life
    • Enhancing cherished relationships
    • Magnifying business success
    • Contributing to community wellbeing
    • Forwarding causes
    • Restoring sanity to society.
  • Block #2 -- Allergic to Power: Most people have been almost exclusively exposed to versions of power that are disrespectful and damaging. Because well-intended people don't want to be disrespectful and damaging, many hold back their personal power. The problem is that even though misuse of power is harmful, so is being allergic to power.
  • Block #3 -- Missing Skills: Most people have never fully developed their Ethical Personal Power Effectiveness™ because they've never had access to the skills that make this possible. Optimizing your Impact Effectiveness in a Perpetual Stress Society requires developing vastly different strategies and tactics for dealing with stress, anger, and power, than the vast majority of programs on life skills, stress management, and anger management provide.


The Key Cause of Power Abuse: Reptile Brain Takeovers

Living in a Perpetual Stress Society has caused far too many people's brains to be perpetually hijacked by their Reptile Brain. Most of us don't realize how easily overtaken we are by the hyper-emotional non-rational "animal" part of our brain. The job of our Reptile Brain is to take control of us when it decides we are in extreme danger situations. Our Reptile Brain (technically called our limbic system) is capable of only four responses: 

  1. Fight fire with a bigger fire ("fight")
  2. Run as far away as possible ("flee")
  3. Become paralyzed like a deer in the headlights ("freeze")
  4. Play possum in the hope that the danger will pass if we hold our breath and lie still for long enough ("faint")

How do Reptile Brain Takeovers occur? Chemically, that’s how. When we allow ourselves to become over-stressed, our body reacts by releasing "emergency response hormones" (adrenaline, norepinephrine, and cortisol). These chemicals biologically turn off the spiritual and thinking part of our brain and hyper-mobilize the reptile-reactivity part of our brain. When our Reptile Brain is in charge, the damage that is created in our personal, work, and community lives can be profound.


What Most Stress Management & Anger Management, & Life Skills Programs Don't Teach

If you're like most people, you haven't had access to skills that:

A) Prevent Reptile Brain Takeovers in yourself and others;

B) Enable you to quickly recognize when a takeover is occurring despite your best prevention efforts;

C) Minimize Reptile Brain Takeovers from doing damage; and

D) Restore effectiveness in yourself and others after a Reptile Brain Takeover has ended.


Mastery requires far more than good intentions, mindset, and mindfulness... and goes far beyond what most stress management, anger management, and life skills programs teach. What's needed is advanced tactics and accountability that:

  • Protect you, the people you lead or supervise, and the businesses/organizations you're involved with from being harmed by Reptile Brain Takeovers
  • Uplevel effective ethical power in you and the people you lead or supervise
  • Make it far more possible than ever to bring about your highest intentions at work, at home, and in your communities

What's needed is Resetting Your Relationship With Power™. This reset gives you ways to:

  1. Prevent or quickly recover from Reptile Brain Takeovers
  2. Respectfully-yet-effectively enact your personal boundaries, even when you don't have someone else's cooperation
  3. Co-create mutually beneficial agreements with the people around you (when they have the willingness to collaborate of course)... instead of feeling like you always have to use coercion or compromise to get your way
  4. Effectively deal with collaboration and commitment breakdowns in ways that increase collaboration... instead of causing resentment to build, conflict to escalate, and agreements to constantly be broken

What It Takes to Thrive & Succeed in Today's World

Succeeding with your goals at work, at home, and in your communities, depends hugely on how effectively you:

  1. Immunize yourself from the profoundly damaging effects of our Perpetual Stress Society
  2. Uplevel your Ethical Personal Power Effectiveness™ instead of remaining trapped in power tyranny, power rebellion, or feeling like you have no power to have positive impact.

If succeeding without sacrificing your integrity is important to you, investing in this online Learn-It-Yourself™ course makes magnificent sense. In fact, it might just provide the most valuable missing key to attaining your goals that you've ever come across. Look below to see what's included...

Here's What You'll Get in this Powerful Course!

Six Skills-Building Modules Covering the Two Main Dimensions of Personal Power

=> Internal Control Power: Become the Sovereign of Yourself

=> External Influence Power: Ethically Uplevel Your Impact Effectiveness

Module 1

Emotional Self-Management Mastery

Module 2

Core Intentions Mastery


Module 3

Boundaries Power Principles

Module 4

Boundaries Implementation

Module 5

Creating Accountability-Capable Agreements

Module 6

Repairing Agreement Breakdowns

Your Ethical Personal Power Effectiveness™ Training Includes... 

  •  Internal Control Power: Become the Sovereign of Yourself 
    • Module #1: Emotional Self-Management Mastery -- This module includes step-by-step tools to get the upper hand on your Reptile Brain and start mastering a form of self-responsibility that is profoundly empowering
    • Module #2: Core Intentions Mastery -- This module shows you how to discover the Noble Intentions that lie hidden beneath your positions (this is the single biggest and most potent overlooked key to keeping your power in your hands... no matter what other people do)
  •  External Influence Power: Ethically Uplevel Your Impact Effectiveness 
    • Module #3: Boundaries Power Principles -- This module reveals the human dynamics secrets to stop having your power robbed by people who aren't open to collaborating or willing to change
    • Module #4: Boundaries Implementation -- This module shows you how to select & enact the optimal intensity level to effectively-yet-respectfully implement your boundaries in any situation... even when someone else refuses to collaborate with you
    • Module #5: Creating Accountability-Capable Agreements -- This module immunizes you to being seduced by good intentions that damage trust and collaboration become they don't come to pass
    • Module #6: Repairing Agreement Breakdowns -- This module provides you with a powerful road tested step-by-step procedure for transforming breakdowns in collaboration and not following through on commitments into collaboration builders instead of resentment escalators

These 6 life skills are the most vitally important keys to thriving in a Perpetual Stress Society. They are absolutely vital leadership and management skills, work collaboration skills, personal relationship skills, and indeed skills for repairing our dysfunctional society. And this might well be the only resource that provides you with all six of these key life skills all in one place.

About Dr. David

Dr. David Gruder, PhD, DCEP​

Thought Leader in Resetting Power™ + Developer of Ethical Power Effectiveness™ Training

Dr. David Gruder is a bestselling 12-award-winning licensed psychologist who was named America’s Integrity Expert by Radio & TV Reports. He helps leaders, executives, entrepreneurs, and the helping professionals who assist them, turn cherished values & noble intentions into step-by-step people procedures that Make Integrity Profitable™. A TEDx speaker, he has given keynotes & training programs in 8 countries on 3 continents on more than 100 topics since the 1980s.

Click to read more about Dr. Gruder.

Here's What People Say About the Value Dr. Gruder Provides

Is This Ethical Personal Power Effectiveness™ Course Right for You?

Here's some information to help you decide whether you'll get great value from this resource.


  • YOU, if you want to step into your full power without sacrificing your integrity or your heart

  • YOU, if you tend to downplay or abandon your boundaries OR people tend to violate your boundaries OR if you tend to force your boundaries onto others

  • YOU, if people tend to make commitments to you that they don't keep (or you with them)

  • YOU, if you want to elevate your effectiveness at preventing conflicts and resolving them in ways that build collaboration instead of damaging it


  • NOT you, if you want to keep diminishing and downplaying your power or if you want your way no matter what the cost to others

  • NOT you, if you're fine with people continuing to walk all over you and take advantage of you, until you periodically blow up and then feel guilty

  • NOT you, if you want to continue to be around people who you can't count on

  • NOT you, if you love constant drama in your relationships and don't care very much about building stronger collaboration with others

The Time, Energy & Money You'll Be Investing

  • Time: Most people find that each of this course's 6 modules takes 2-3 hours to complete. This means you can complete it in as little as a weekend. However, you can pretty much go at your own pace because you'll have access to this course for a full year. Each module includes a Training Video and accompanying step-by-step fill-in-the-blanks Action Guide to help you apply what's covered in the video in whatever parts of your life that you wish: in your personal relationships, at work, in your communities and/or in your volunteer activities.
  • Energy: The more commitment you have to bringing what you learn into your life, the more benefits you're likely to get. 
  • Tuition: This is going to blow your mind. I've been told I should be charging $2997 USD as a one-on-one mentoring program and $997 USD for this as a self-guided online course. I am seriously considering raising the price of this course to $497 USD. But, for now at least, I'm making the entire Learn-It-Yourself™ program available to you for $997 $497 $197... and this includes responding to your comments and questions in the course area (you can post your comments at the bottom of each section of each module!).
  • Access to All Modules Begins moments from now. (Your login details will arrive by email within minutes after you complete your payment. If you don't find it in your inbox, check your spam and/or junk folder and then whitelist the email address.)
  • Need Course Assistance? Click the help button on this page or the "lifesaver" icon toward the top right of each page inside the course. (The same goes if you would like me to send you details about engaging me for private consults.)


We're confident that this is an extraordinary one-of-a-kind course. However want you to be confident that what's covered in this course is a great match with what you're wanting. So, once you've enrolled, we'll provide you with a full week to get acquainted with everything that's in it. In the highly unlikely event that you end up deciding within that week that this isn't for you after all, simply click the "lifesaver" icon toward the top right of each page in the course to request your refund. Simple as that.

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I look forward to interacting with you as you move through the modules in this incredibly important training program.


Ethical Personal Power Effectiveness™ is solely a Learn-It-Yourself™ education resource. It is not psychotherapy, medical care, spiritual advising, or a substitute for these or any other types of professional assistance you might need. Only you can know when a resource like this one is right for you — at all or at a particular time time. By choosing to access this resource you are agreeing that how you make sense of what Dr. Gruder provides, how you understand & utilize it, and the results you get from it, are solely in your hands. You are also agreeing that utilizing this resource does NOT create a client-psychotherapist relationship between you and Dr. Gruder, or with anyone else with whom he is affiliated. Lastly, you are agreeing that, should you find that you need counseling or psychotherapy as you utilize this resource (or any of Dr. Gruder's other resources), you take full and complete responsibility for seeking this from an appropriate professional. You can read our full Terms of Use document at to enroll in this course is your verification that you understand and have agreed to ALL of the above terms & conditions.

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